tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post112256081271393560..comments2023-09-22T10:32:15.533-07:00Comments on DC Gays of Our Lives: Flirting or Being Friendly?Benjihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08515468236311846130noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122910178884126882005-08-01T08:29:00.000-07:002005-08-01T08:29:00.000-07:00My advice would be to engage in conversation, but ...My advice would be to engage in conversation, but make sure that within a few sentences you've dropped a clear signpost as to your orientation (and don't rely on gaydar, not everyone has it! This reminds me of the time I met this really cool gay girl, and she announced that she was the editor of a radical feminist lesbian literary journal - and I still failed to catch on that she was gay until someone one mentioned it to me later ... and I was like: Oh! I guess that would explain her being the editor of a radical feminist lesbian literary journal!)<BR/><BR/>For example, you say, "You know my name, now you have to tell me yours ... " (then you look down at your watch, and say, as if distractedly talking to yourself:) "Shoot ... my boyfriend was supposed to meet me here ten minutes ago ..." and then continue on with the conversation. Once you've dropped the boyfriend mention (and of course, there is no need for the boyfriend to be anything but fictional), you can flirt away to your heart's content!dksjdlkjfsaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06830084856611559410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122583973888474402005-07-28T13:52:00.000-07:002005-07-28T13:52:00.000-07:00My thoughts? THere is nothing I love more than fl...My thoughts? THere is nothing I love more than flirting with a gay man. Its the most fun! It great for both of you, makes you feel sexy and wanton, but you know it will never go anywhere, so you never have to worry about the next step. I think you should have continued the conversation, and if she was interested, let her know of your being gay. It can't hurt. Either that or start every conversation with, "HI, Im Gay and am not interested in dating you, but what's your name?" I don't think that one really works well.Kayceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07914964521118312553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122569326472436432005-07-28T09:48:00.000-07:002005-07-28T09:48:00.000-07:00that's a very good point.... livin la vida broka i...that's a very good point.... livin la vida broka is tots the word of the day.... PS, entry level jobs are busted... 4 years of college for this??? this is BANANASDChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489642186715285205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122567799193358282005-07-28T09:23:00.000-07:002005-07-28T09:23:00.000-07:00the boy does make a strong point, but situations g...the boy does make a strong point, but situations get unclear when it starts out with drinks or coffee... meals are interchangeable I feel as are movies/outingsDChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489642186715285205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122563993292965092005-07-28T08:19:00.000-07:002005-07-28T08:19:00.000-07:00If you ask, you pay.And if you didn't ask the firs...If you ask, you pay.<BR/><BR/>And if you didn't ask the first time, you should ask the next time and pay.The Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07727084483582378152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122561461768117642005-07-28T07:37:00.000-07:002005-07-28T07:37:00.000-07:00Oh I'm not hating...I'm celebrating... and please ...Oh I'm not hating...I'm celebrating... and please my flame burns bright, unlike your little pilot light. Who has two interchangeable straps for their gym bag to coordinate with different outfits? oh that's right me... ha ha ha, and I'm pretty sure helen keller could tell that I'm a big ole mary (booty shorts to the gym? anyone?)DChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489642186715285205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14632173.post-1122561131688520592005-07-28T07:32:00.000-07:002005-07-28T07:32:00.000-07:00Oh my darling Chip.... honey you could roast marsh...Oh my darling Chip.... honey you could roast marshmallows off the flames you emit.. pretty sure she wasn't after you for some sweaty Chip-loving.... as for the dating<BR/><BR/>1)I've never to this date paid on dates... then again I don't ask guys out... I feel if they ask me out it's their obligation for the most part.<BR/><BR/>2)Gym bag with matching strap that you made yourself? Sweatbands that coordinate with your shorts?? darling she knows....we all know....DChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489642186715285205noreply@blogger.com